Consider you're from a pukka traditional family. Your parents have found and fixed a guy for you. You're now engaged. Life has never been as good for you before! It's like having a boyfriend but only so much better!
1. You're allowed to stay up late nights, blocking up the phone lines and no mutter of dissent comes from your parents.
2. You run up a huge phone bill and your parents oh-so-happily dole out the cash!
3. You're entitled to wear a silly grin stuck to your face and nobody thinks you're a fool.
4. When you suddenly blush for no reasons at all, instead of weird stares you get pleased looks from your family and friends.
5. All everyone can tell you is about what a happy life you're gonna lead with him/her.
6. Suddenly you're the center of attraction in every gathering and conversation - and you like it!
7. You get to have a boyfriend without going thru' the pains of finding one!
8. You find yourself in a new and erstwhile forbidden relationship and suddenly it's not frowned upon at all - you can be bold as daylight about this!
9. You now have more fun planning your wedding (something you've been doing since you were this high), because you can now give shape to the person who'll sit next to you!
10. Not only are you happy in this relationship, you find that everyone around you is happy too. And that increases yours!
To put it simply, it's a happy dreamy time!!
Author's note: Thanks to Vaishu for being an inspiration for this post!
15 comments:
nice moments!!
//You're entitled to wear a silly grin stuck to your face and nobody thinks you're a fool.//
indha lines padichitu semaya sichiten
mathi ,
un post a padichathum un happiness ingayum konjam thothikichu ..
Cool baby enjoy :-)) ..
@tamizh
paatha innum sirippa :-)
@sona
i am.. i am... :-)
yeah..u have practically described how the traditional pre-wedding days are in India. I've been married recently and can totally relate to this post.
Mathi, Is there a hidden message in that post for us to see?
Mat...is this a precursor of something that we are gonna hear soon :D....BTW very well expressed....and you can get as expressive only when you have the feeling :)
hey.. vaishu was ur inspiration?
i was smiling reading the very first line and it continued till the end....
i am so happy for u
"FEEL GOOD" TIMES-Enjoy
It ll never come back
uma
Just wait till saturday, girly.. The rest of the family might just smile down upon you benovolently and say nothing.. but not me.. you are in for it! BIGTIME!
:-)
Muhahahahahahaha!
Heyyyyy.. So u are in it eh??! enjoy :)
Loved point no 9:
because you can now give shape to the person who'll sit next to you!
Very Interesting!! The way you expressed it is quite impressive! Anyway enjoy it:)
@maddie
guess it brought you some nice memories!
@sugeeth
of course not! it's just what it appears to be.
@priti
yup prits! you're right on target there.. expressiveness comes from the feeling :)
@nivi
yea.. she was! :-) i know you are :-)
@uma
experience?? thanks for the tip!!
@chit
ooooohhh scary!
@vishy
i *am* enjoying! ;-)
so you can relate to point no 9 too? I thought it was generally done a lot by the girls! great to know you guys do it too!!!
@CoB
hey... welcome to my space!!
and thanks for your compli's!
Enaku "Saami" film song dhaan background le odichu , when i read this post. "Idhu dhaana, Edhirpaarthe anaalum idhu dhaana".. I loved point 1 and 2 and 3 and 4 and 5 and 6 and 7.. I enjoyed reading the entire post.
A pic depicting each point would have widened our grin now and your's a few years later. :) to :D!
@dharu
yes...idhuthan! :-)
@rakesh
welcome!!!
good idea.. lemme try later!
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