'Why don't you write about short temper?' the SMS from Nivi blinked at me.
'What? Short temper? Why?' I asked her.
'Just like that' came the reply.
What does one write about short temper? I was wondering. Then it stuck me! I can actually write lots about it. I interact daily with extremely short tempered people. I also have my own fair share of it. So I was well qualified to write something about it!
Well here goes.
So a person is short tempered. Let's forget the why of it. You are talking to that person and their temper begins to act up. How do you react?
Firstly, don't lose yours. Next bring to your mind the adage on dogs barking at the sun. But be clear on the role definition - you do the shining and they do the barking. This basically boosts up your ego and elevates your self worth. It'll make you think that it is unnecessary to lower yourself and bark back. It also helps you to view them in a detached cynical manner and pity them for hiking up their blood pressure. The hotter they become, the cooler you will be. At no point of the conversation let yourself get involved. Maintain a purely observatory position. The barking will run its course and then die a natural death.
If you have any replies to give them, do it when they have no more energy to bark.
Right! But what if it is you who is doing the yelling? If you are a person with a chronic case of short temper-itis, never fear, cure is near! Whenever you feel like yelling, tell yourself those two admirable words - Shut up! If you're not the kind of person who listens to your own advice, well then leave the place. Just walk out. If that ain't possible, then drink something. Anything to seal your lips.
Practice clamping your mouth shut tight whenever you feel the symptoms of this illness. Do something that takes your mind off the situation at hand. Music is a good choice. Going out for a drive or a walk is another fine option. Come back after your pressure levels are low and then you're ready to tackle the sitation in a calm and collected manner.
The advantage of short temper is that it is...well.. short! The foul mood doesn't last long. But the effects of letting it out will. So be sure not to react when you feel all heated up.
Use these prescriptions well, you'll be cured soon!
11 comments:
Arent u bored of getting praised for ur writing skills in every blog... this blog is of no exception... I totally loved reading it d..
And the best part is "The advantage of short temper is that it is...well.. short ".... well thought out...
well.. you see.. that's something that I can never tire of hearing!
i love being able to reply "thanks for your lovely comments"
:-)
oh hey...here it comes again!
Thanks for your lovely comment!!
Going out for a drive.. this is not a wise option to cope with temper.. atleast for specimens like me.
I assume your inbuilt sense of caution would prevent any mishaps!
Short temper is one thing and lashing it out is another. I think one tends to have a short temper when one is denied or wronged a lot. And how can u not be involved when something has angered u so much that u just rant off the first things that come to you mind?
my point exactly!
the effects of lashing out and ranting off when you're angered beyond measure, will bring about a lot of ill effects.
all i'm saying is that, don't react when you're extremely angry - short tempered.
controlled anger is completely different. it is also constructive.
hmm psychological prescrition... doctor agiteenga....
phrases tht i admired
1.seal your lips
2.the SMS from Nivi blinked at me.
3.But be clear on the role definition
(idha phrasesnu dhana sollanum??)
doctor? na.. am just an observer :-)
yea phrases they are.
Bzzzzzzzzz...............
i'm sorry, are you impersonating a bee or just sleeping with a 'B' in front?
;-)
I am running short of words to appreciate this post. Very well thought about and very well expressed.
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